Every Woman, Every Man?
03/01/2004 10:41 p.m.
Someone once said: "every man wants to be his woman's first love, and every woman wants to be her man's last love." I wonder if that's true. I don't recall who was supposed to have said it. I certainly believe it can often be true, but not always. On the woman's part it sounds selfish, for if she really cares about him but for some reason or another they don't last together, or she predeceases him, wouldn't she be able to put aside her own self to want him to have a full and happy romantic life? Love means caring more for the other person, doesn't it, even while sure to look after yourself and your own needs as an individual. On the other hand, it sounds rather egotistical and like some kind of macho, conquestor behavior, for every man to want to be the pioneer lover and possessor of his woman. But then, everything's kind of crazy, in love. So who knows?
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