What a little birdy told me..
09/25/2003 11:20 p.m.
Men fall in love with thier eyes, women fall in love with their ears... Maybe this is true for most men, including me.. I derrive so much from a picture, or what a person looks like it's proabbly uncanny.. but speaking personally about me.. I find things to love about a woman.. The accent, inflection, choice of words, the way she expresses herself (be it art, music or just in commincation).. I find things attractive that proabbly most don't.. glasses, intelligence, sense of humor, personality.. but I won't lie.. I do fall in love with my eyes.. but I also use my ears.. I could think a woman is drop dead sexy, but if she opens her mouth and a racist remark or a belittlement about someone else falls out, it really effects how I think about that person.. I feel that what a person has to say about other people is a reflection about that person, in a sense...what that person thinks about themself..

I'd say it's true for the most part.. but I think it's too much of a sterotype.. I don't think most men fall in love with their eyes.. Well maybe fall in lust.. but I think that most times, a guy will lust after anything that he see's as a challenge.. guy's want to solve problems, women want to talk about them... a guy wants to get between your legs to settle a dispute that maybe he's the one who'll make you come.. and you want him to be there for the long haul.. which I guess ends in a conflict of intrests.. since men seem to be resolved to only want something they can't have and get bored with it after they have it..

What ever happend to our old school ethics? The fact of working something out? the making it work ethic that all our grandparents have/had... My grandfolks have been together 50, almost 60 years... and they arn't the happiest people together, but at least they have each other.. what kind of world are we creating, if we can't make love work, but we can shuffle our kids off to see daddy on the weekends, when he's not running after a girl half his age? I think that we're teaching both men and women the wrong morals when it comes to realtionships...
We teach them to run from a struggle.. It's easier that way I guess to drop something that has lost it's glimmer.. but I think it's more powerful to work through adversity.. make things stable... comfortable.. be honest.. Communicate..(as best you can)...and for once.. Listen to their heart.. and not what they look like, or what's between their legs...

I still have faith in human exisitence.. there's always hope.. too bad it seems I'm a rare breed..

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